kHaS uNtUk LeLaKi YaNg RaSa MaCaM TaK NaMpaK MaSa DePaN - HoW tO cReaTe HaPPiNeSs?

IN THE NAME OF ALLAH THE MOST GRACIOUS THE MOST MERCIFUL

PEACE BE UPON HIM PROPHET MUHAMMAD SAW

ASSALAMUALAIKUM WBT


(ngeribacatajuksendiri)

After I done with my ‘buku program’ for leadership camp next week, I was sitting in the front desk, having a leisure chat with The Beloved Boss while stamping abang Said punya kertas sebut harga, again, he talked to me about ‘jodoh’. My boss laa. And if you want to say it’s annoying. Please do so. The point is, he was just gave me a tip to choose my future in-law. Make the family close to each other. I mean, literally close. Try to avoid the in-law who stay far from you otherwise you might find it ‘penat’. So bear in mind, SYARAT-PERTAMA-NAK-KAHWIN-DENGAN-AKU-HARUSLAH-ORANG-NEGERI-SEMBILAN-TITIK

So there you go the entry’s point. How to create happiness? How to comfort yourself? (tiba-tiba kan?) Because, I try to find out, why men are mostly can’t adapt with situations? I mean, why can’t they be happy with something new? Or at least, pretend to be.

“Man is fond of counting his troubles, but he does not count his joys. If he counted them up as he ought to, he would see every lot has enough happiness provided for it.” – Fyodor Dostoevsky (aku tak kenal pun dia siapa)

Taken from this book and I was thinking, yeah, you’re so true Mr. Book.

yang dibeli dengan baucer buku RM200 kalau dengan duit sendiri memang taklah

This is not bias or discrimination or what. But men are the party which I think quite difficult to start a conversation. I often see with my own eyes. Ini bukan cobaan, ini betul-betul kejadian. There’s someone I know, who’re not the kind of person who can communicate well with people. Easily get irritated. Don’t want to accept challenge. Not independent. You can say that he’s kind of prejudice.

So here I give you some tip Mr. Silent. To improve the happiness of others and your own in return, why don’t you consider beginning a blog? Just like what I did. Well, your blog can be filled or focuses on happiness. Only write about the things that make you happy. Not necessarily everyday, but try as much as you can. It does make you different compared to others. I mean, in term of your emotion and feeling.

Cause by looking for and writing about positive events in your daily life and the world, you will start to spend more time focusing on the happy events in your life. Sharing those happy moments, create some entries (even the short one), insyaAllah, it will make them also feel the glow of your feeling.

Not interested in blog? Minumlah cool blog. Haha. Langsung tak lawak ke der. Fine then. So, if you’re not the writing, the narrator, the story teller, the makcik potpet-potpet type like me, why don’t you try a journal? Not the real journal like a big report of the day. You can consider, finding 3 good and happy things that happened to you everyday. Just list them up. Three bullets consider enough for the beginner. 

Nak paksa having a diary like this karang takut bertambah migraine pulak.

So, for you who have felt down lately, this can be some kind of exercise to begin with. If you feel like nothing is happy in your life, start to focus on the little positive things and soon you will notice more small things that can put a smile on your face. If you’re part of me, consider to look at my previous entries. Cause it does make me motivated and feel like whoaaa… we do have those kind of moments huh. Kadang-kadang rasa macam nak lempang diri sendiri pun ada. “Macam mana aku buleh tulis entry mengarut macam ni eh?” – itu monolog sahaja.

And as for me, 3 things the best hari ini;

1.       Meet Mr. Boss.

2.       Have a father-daughters chat.

3.       Lunch together.

IT'S MASA UNTUK DOMINO!

and En. Ridwan, you're the awesome one who always made my day.
Eh why you muka so serious?

p/s: nama lain entry ini ialah - siapa cakap praktikal tak best? - part III ! lalalalalala (entry sudah semakin merepek. sila tunjukkan aku jalan yang benar)